Lily Sarah Grace Fund First Annual Gala

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By Linda T. Kennedy

If one could give an emotional analogy for silvering, an early 19th century manufacturing process that turned glass into mirrors, it could be the First Annual LilySarahGrace (LSG) Fund Gala Sat., Oct. 25, 2014, Jack Studios, New York, N.Y.

In this case, the “silvering” was 300 guests joining Matthew Badger, LSG founder, and LSG Co-Founder Abby Ballin, as they released “You Can’t Memorize This,” a collection of drawings from  visual and performing artists. The book includes 38 original celebrity drawings and is part of LSG’s first large fund-raising campaign, “Color Outside the Lines.”  

The campaign and book is turning tragedy into triumph for Badger and Ballin after losing Badger’s daughters, Lily, Sarah and Grace in a Stamford, Connecticut house fire Dec. 25, 2011. The gala reflected 3 years of purpose-driven hard work by Badger, Ballin, LSG Fund teachers and supporters. Childhood zeal, compassionate love, creativity and passion for the arts glistened from the studio’s walls and illustrated LSG’s mission to provide underprivileged students with arts-infused, inquiry-based education. The celebration followed a successful Kickstarter campaign (see “One for the Money”) ending the day before the gala.

“The ‘Color Outside the Lines’ gala was a huge success, thanks to the amazing people that came out to support the cause and who lent a hand throughout the planning process,” says Robert Cambria, executive director, LilySarahGrace Fund. “The space was a gorgeous, pristine, all-white space. And in addition to the drawings, murals spread across the walls which were composite images of Lily, Sarah and Grace.”

LSG also enlarged three drawings from actors Johnny Knoxville and Naomi Watts, and singer-songwriter Rufus Wainwright and hung them on the gallery walls for people to color on. “We had a thousand Sharpie markers in a bucket and people could just come in and grab colors and just draw, color or write notes. Some people just wrote really sweet notes like ‘keep up this work,’” says Cambria, who described the event as a “massive undertaking” for Ballin, and gala co-director and author Periel Aschenbrand.

“They were really the creative masterminds behind the event, and they spent almost every waking moment of the past 3 months putting it together, along with a host committee of more than 15 people, the celebrity artists who donated works and gala sponsors Epoch Films, Sharpie, Belle Fleur, and Helen Ficalora. They all worked to make sure everything went smoothly and was taken care of in time.”

Honoring LSG Heroes

LSG also planned the event to honor actress and talk show host Whoopi Goldberg, Donorschoose.org Founder Charles Best and teacher Hans Tullman, an LSG AIIBL (Arts-infused, Inquiry-based Learning) grant recipient from Bakersfield, Calif.

“We wanted to honor Whoopi and Charles because of the impact that they have had on LSG since day one,” explains Cambria. “Matt met Whoopi when he was on ‘The View,’ when LSG first started, and she also hosted our very first fundraiser, LilySarahGrace on Broadway.” Besides winning numerous awards and receiving acclaim for her work in film, television and theater, Goldberg is known for her humanitarian efforts on behalf of children and other causes and charities.

Like Badger, Goldberg is dyslexic. Badger’s daughters were also dyslexic and he could identify commonalities in them, himself and other creatives like Goldberg. It fueled his LSG mission and Goldberg hooked onto it. “Goldberg has been a huge support to us, and we just wanted to acknowledge that and thank her,” says Cambria.

Goldberg, filming on location in Spain, sent a video speech for the gala. “I just want to thank everybody for giving me this wonderful award, the Lily Sarah Grace ‘Color Outside the Lines’ award,” she said. “It’s so amazing to be here, and be a dyslexic, and find that there are lots of people like me and that you are celebrating folks who do ‘Color Outside the Lines.’ So I just want to say thank you so much and send you all my best. I wish I could be with you.”

Best, a former history teacher, committed his own organization, Donorschoose.org to work with LSG from its conception. In 2000, Best started DonorsChoose.org to help teachers petition for donations for their classrooms and students. Now half of all public schools in the U.S. have had at least one teacher post a project to DonorsChoose.org. “We would not have reached the number of students we did in our first year if wasn’t for Charles and Donorschoose,” says Cambria.

Tullman was honored at the event for best representing the purposes and practices of the new LSG AIIBL grant last year. “That grant is for $1,500, and Hans’ project blew us away. It was the first semester that we had put the grants out with a complete list of criteria meant to highlight and promote AIIBL,” explained Cambria. “With the grant, his students made films about saving the environment, and through each step they showed so much understanding and such a deep level of engagement, which is really the most important thing that a student can have when it comes to their learning.”

A Lot of Sweet, A Bit of Sorrow

The gala guests, including LSG Ed Council members and celebrities, applauded the honorees with Badger and Ballin, and the evening was positive, light and fun like any party celebrating children should be, says Cambria. But it was also infused with tender moments that held guests to remembering why they were there.

Actress Natasha Lyonne spoke to the importance of Badger and Ballin’s work, explaining her life wouldn’t have played out the same if it weren’t for the arts. And Badger and Ballin also acknowledged their efforts would not be possible without the generosity and dedication from the sponsors, volunteers and friends. “It was an emotional part of the evening,” says Cambria. “As well as when Wainwright ended with an absolutely beautiful and moving rendition of Hallelujah.”

Ballin says that while they are grateful the new campaign launched successfully, it’s difficult for her to consider events like Saturday night’s gala as a silver lining in their lives after losing Lily, Sarah and Grace. “It’s hard for me to say there is a silvering in all of this, although it is a beautiful phrase and has great meaning. I do find that I use the term bittersweet often when talking about LSG, the work that we all are doing there is so meaningful and truly sings to my soul, but I know that the majority of us wouldn’t be doing this work or even know each other if the girls were still here…”

But if they were still here, it would have been their kind of party says the girl’s father, Badger. “The event was awesome and we had a really great time. With 300 people, it was a giant love party and the girls would have adored it.”

 

“Color Outside the Lines”

Facts and Figures from the LilySarahGrace Fund

First Annual Gala:

Premier of the Book “You Can’t Memorize This”:

38 personal drawings by celebrities in the visual and performing arts
500 initial copies printed to sell at the campaign launch gala

  • 2nd printing anticipated with additional drawings from other artists

Nearly half the books are already sold.

Purchasing information is online, at: http://lsgshop.org

How many students could benefit?
Kickstarter funding: 21,000

Sales from all books = 45 stepping stone LSG project grants at $450 a piece.

Average class size in the U.S.: 25[1]

If only one classroom benefits from each grant, a minimum of 1,125 students benefit from projects funded by the “You Can’t Memorize This” book.
(Most grant applicants teach multiple classes and propose projects for 1 stepping stone grant to benefit many students.)

Greatest amount of students served by 1 LSG stepping stone grant to date: 600 students

What else is in the book?

Drawings by Lily, Sarah and Grace on the front and back inside covers

There are 3 sections in the book for each Badger girl.

Matt wrote his personal memories about each of his daughters:

He talks about Lily overcoming her fears.

He recounts Sarah’s charisma and draw.

He recalls Grace’s absolute confidence
and shares about his love for the girls.

The Gala:

  • Pippi Badger, fund-raiser extraordinaire (see “One for the Money”) wore a purple tulle frock, designer unknown.
  • Sharpie provided personalized LSG markers for guests to color on the walls.
  • Celebrity-art glazed sugar cookies were served next to hors d’oeuvres and an open bar.
  • Rufus Wainwright, award-winning American-Canadian singer-songwriter, composer, who performed at the gala, also sang “Somewhere over the Rainbow” at Lily’s, Sarah’s and Grace’s funeral.
  • The font used for the “Color outside the Lines” phrase on campaign materials is a font made from samples of Lily’s, Sarah’s and Grace’s own handwriting.

 To learn more about the LilySarahGrace Fund, see our series in On Our Watch 

 

 

[1] Editorial Projects in Education Research Center. (2011, July 1). Issues A-Z: Class Size. Education Week. Retrieved Month Day, Year from http://www.edweek.org/ew/issues/class-size/

One for the Money

Pippi Badger

Pippi Badger

Lily’s Dog Raises Funds for LSG

By Linda T. Kennedy
Editor’s note: this is the third story in a 3-part SLN Watch special series

Nearly three years since Badger and Ballin started the LSG Fund to memorialize Lily, Sarah and Grace, they are finally in a place where they can look back and see where they’ve been and where they’re going with the project. As of now, LSG has helped 160,000 public school students, granting more than a million dollars in supplies to teachers throughout the country.

LSG touches classrooms not only with resources, but with AIIBL, a new learning model and professional development program. But it can’t be said that all of this exceeds Badger’s and Ballin’s initial expectations; when they started LSG, there were none beyond actively channeling the love for their girls to other children.

“To be honest, we didn’t have any expectations, you can’t, I mean when you’re living in a nightmare it’s hard to dream,” says Ballin. “So it was basically saddle up and take the leap! We had to stay in the now because looking back or forward was far too painful.”

Staying in the “now” also meant relentless drive for Badger. “The first year I threw myself into it on an obsessive level — it was a full-time commitment,” recalls Badger. “My abundance of love for the girls was poured into LSG and it gave me great purpose again.” And when Badger and Ballin arrived at the first school on the Bus Tour, Dawes Elementary School in Chicago, Ill. they saw, for the first time, what their love for Lily, Sarah and Grace looked like in the form of being transferred to others.

“That was really the pivotal moment of this journey for both Matt and myself,” recalls Ballin. We saw the joy on those kid’s faces and the empowerment we gave to that teacher and we knew we were doing something special and the presence of the girls was so very overwhelming. When we continued on and met more and more remarkable teachers and their precious students, it connected us to them, to each other, to this world. It was powerful.”

Emily Lopez, LSG Ed Council leader, says the connections came naturally because Badger has a knack for identifying talent. So it’s no wonder that eventually, Badger and Ballin identified another key figure to represent and drive LSG forward in its 4th year: Pippi Badger, Lily’s 6-pound maltipoo puppy who joined the family August 2011, for Lily’s 9th birthday.

6 Pounds of Mega-Purpose

Pippi made her first appearance as a spokesperson for LSG Sept. 24, 2014 in a Kickstarter video You Can’t Memorize This,” LSG’s first large fund-raising campaign.

The video illustrates, from Pippi’s perspective, the role Lily, Sarah and Grace played her life. Pippi also explains how she is helping further the LSG education mission with the book “Color Outside the Lines.” Several music, film, television and stage artists answered LSG’s call to help with the book by contributing a drawing of their own. And supporter’s endorsed the idea by pledging over $20,000 (LSG’s funding goal) to the Kickstarter project. LSG plans to publish the book with the Kickstarter funds.

“The compilation of drawings is based on the concept that all great thinkers think outside the box,” says Ballin, creative director of the campaign. “LilySarahGrace has enlisted some of the best, brightest and most unique thinkers of our generation to raise awareness for arts infused education in underfunded public elementary schools. We handed artists from a number of different disciplines a sketchpad and a marker and asked them to create a simple line drawing.”

Artists Bruno Mars, David Copperfield, Jennifer Aniston, Julianne Moore, Justin Theroux, Laura Dern, Lionel Richie, Naomi Watts, Tina Fey, Tom Arnold, Whoopi Goldberg, Will Ferrell; fashion designer, Diane Von Furstenberg; sculptor, Carole Feuerman; photographers, Laurie Simmons and Mark Seliger; chef, Mario Batali; painter and illustrator Sage Vaughn and many more personalities representing the visual and performing arts returned the sketchpad to LSG with their personal drawings.

The book also includes a drawing by jeweler Helen Ficalora, who designed the LilySarahGrace Eye Charm from one of Sarah’s own drawings. Ficalora is donating 25 percent of sales from the charms to LSG. Hers, and all the other drawings will be displayed at LSG Fund’s First Annual Gala, Oct. 25, 2014, Jack Studios 601 West 26th Street, New York City. Rufus Wainwright is slated to perform during the gala.

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Pippi Oct. 24, 2014 as the Gala swag bags were packed.

Becoming “Triumphant Survivors”

Despite the enormous talent the LSG team has recruited to further its mission and the tall accomplishments in such a short period, grief has been a constant undercurrent in Badger and Ballin’s journey. And they candidly acknowledge that grief will always accompany their efforts.

As a matter of fact, Badger says he really didn’t take time to grieve after losing his girls; he immediately immersed himself in LSG and now, still faces that personal work. “So, it is [the grief] still going on for me, it’s very painful and I am still very raw from it,” says Badger. But when you have this much grief, you can do something with it or fall into the grief and be shattered by it,” he says. “I decided to do something with it.”

That is what a “triumphant survivor” looks like, says Alan Pederson, executive director, national office, The Compassionate Friends (TCF) – the largest organization for bereaved families in the world. Founded in England in 1969, TCF was established in the United States in 1972, with not-for-profit incorporation in 1978, under which provision the organization’s more than 650 local Chapters also operate. TCF also operates as separate entities in 30 countries around the world.

“There are a small portion of people out there who eventually come through their grief as what we call “triumphant survivors,” explains Pederson. “They literally take a tragedy so horrible, such as this one, and they take the skills God gave them or what they feel their child would have loved and they will accomplish incredible things. And this is what’s happening here. Triumphant survivors are rare, and he [Badger] is rare and then to do it at the level that their doing this is just amazing.”

One might easily see all the things that the LSG Fund is accomplishing as silver linings in their tragic story, but Badger and Ballin’s grief is still so acute and raw, it’s difficult for them to describe it that way. And Abby refers to the good in their journey as something stemming from an ongoing process; “silvering.”

LilySarahGrace = Love

“I would say the silvering is seeing Lily, Sarah and Grace bringing joy back into classrooms and giving other children that gift of digging deeper into their creative minds,” says Ballin, who with Badger, primarily attributes LSG’s success to the outpouring of love of friends, family, the community and between each other.

“The power of love is, well, powerful,” says Ballin. “I don’t know how I’ve gotten here, how I am even able to get out of bed most mornings; there is a lot of denial, but mostly there is a love and commitment and the overall underlining mantra of what would the girls want me to do? And if I ask that question whenever I am lost it usually leads me to the right place. LilySarahGrace for me is all about love, my love for the girls, my love for Matt, and that love spreads to all these teachers and children that need to feel supported in school.”

Badger says his greatest silvering “yet to come” may be that someday, he could become another parent’s silver lining in their own tragedies. “LilySarahGrace is a silver lining of the tragedy, however, I personally think this has changed my perspective in life and I will continue to look for other ways that I can help and create meaning from this tragedy. But right now, it’s LilySarahGrace.”

Pederson, who eventually found his work at TCF following the loss of his own daughter in a car accident, August 2011, says there are many silver linings ahead for Badger and Ballin; they just can’t see them yet. “Our kid’s left us the silver linings — the gift of their love placed them ahead of us but it’s our job to find them,” he says. “But he’ll look back and realize that that work they’ve done was one of the main contributors to the healing that will eventually come. There will be little measures of healing that will come and come and then one day, he’ll look back and say, ‘Wow, am I glad I did this.’”

AIIBL to Move Forward

Healing, Pederson says, begins with helping and talking and sharing our losses, expressing the love – all things Badger and Ballin did since those first days after their loss. “Life does get better from that lowest point and it can get better and better for some people and I believe that’s where these folks are going.”

Badger and Ballin are now looking forward to seeing AIIBL professional development expand and continue to create partnerships with educators, foundations, and other funds to “super-size the movement.”  In the meantime, just as parents let go of their maturing children, Badger is now shifting from his original LSG role from working on the grassroots level to focusing on funding as chairman.

But the idea that children, like Badger’s own Lily, are now overcoming learning challenges in her memory and her sisters’—that thousands more will have a promising future—is sustaining Badger in his loss and grieving process. And just like proud parents talking about their grown children, Badger talks about AIIBL with energy and hope for it’s future. He makes it clear his heart is still deeply invested in what is happening in the classrooms.

“I am super happy about it and I love all the people that are involved with it,” says Badger. “All the teachers we work with are so like-minded – wonderful, dedicated, lovely people. They really work very hard every day. The love for children may explain why people give their time, energy and resources to LSG. I adore kids, and why would anyone want anything but the best for them?”

 “What we learn with pleasure, we never forget.” –Alfred Merceir

 

Lily Sarah Grace Fund

Making Art the Heart of Learning

By Linda T. Kennedy
Editor’s note: this is the second story in a 3-part SLN Watch special series

It’s not uncommon to find organizations in which the impetus for their birth and purpose is to memorialize the accomplishments of lives well lived. But when an organization takes on a life of its own and has the potential to change entire social systems that impact the very development of humanity, that’s an evolution to behold.

That’s what’s happening with the Lily Sarah Grace (LSG) Fund; a New York, N.Y.-based organization founded in 2012 to honor Lily, Sarah and Grace Badger who were lost Christmas morning, 2011, in a Connecticut house fire. Today, LSG Founder Matthew Badger, and LSG Co-Founder and Creative Director Abby Ballin continue awarding art supply grants to educators in impoverished U.S. public schools.

But now, with its own Arts-Infused, Inquiry–Based education (AIIBL – pronounced “able”) initiative, LSG also pulsates in the laughter and expression of children learning academic subjects through the arts. The AIIBL learning model incorporates the philosophy of arts-based learning projects with the philosophy that children also learn through collaborating in groups.

“The arts are the wheels that move the vehicle of innovative thinking and learning forward,” explains Emily Lopez, principal founder of AIIBL. “In this case, the vehicle is inquiry — research, asking questions and collaborating with others that facilitates learning. Inquiry can be engaging to any person, but when you add in the arts, it creates a learning connection for every type of learner, and learning and innovation go hand in hand.”

Initially, Badger and Ballin had no idea their LSG Fund vehicle would rapidly accelerate beyond providing teachers with paint and paper. But by the end of their first-year school bus tour, Badger and Ballin’s immersion in classroom environments resulted in a swelling passion to do more with infusing children’s learning environment with art.

“We filmed in all these different classrooms, we made all these different films, we interviewed all these different teachers, and through visiting with those that we gave supplies to, we were able to form a group to collaborate on the future of LSG,” explains Badger. “Through that process, this idea of inquiry-based learning emerged.”

From their school visits, Badger and Ballin identified a group of teachers representing each region in the U.S. who would serve as the LSG Ed Council. Emily Lopez, principal at Magnet Public Elementary School in Norwalk, Conn., would lead the group in taking the organization into its next phase of growth and development.

Matthew Badger filming in Anna Glodowski’s class, Albemarle Road Elementary School, Charlotte, NC

Arts-Infused, Inquiry–Based Learning

The new 10-member LSG Ed Council met in New York for the first time during summer 2013. They created the LSG’s future grant criteria, and AIIBL, a teaching methodology that takes arts-based learning into another realm. They also defined the criteria for an AIIBL grant, which would be awarded to teachers incorporating the model into their classrooms in the future.

“AIIBL is an inquiry-based learning model that utilizes the arts, but the arts are integrated as a method by which they gain an understanding in some area, as well a way to show what they’ve learned and the thoughts they’ve created on their own,” says Lopez, explaining that other arts-infused education models integrate art into traditional curriculum, but in this model, inquiry allows kids to drive the direction of study. “They are asking the questions and that’s what’s driving the project forward. Project-based learning has the potential to be more teacher-driven, whereas inquiry-based learning is more student driven.”

The Ed Council built AIIBL’s tenets upon Howard Gardener’s Multiple Intelligences. Gardener, Hobbs Professor of Cognition and Education at the Harvard Graduate School of Education, developed the theory that all human beings possess several intelligences: visual, verbal, mathematical, bodily/kinesthetic, music/rhythmic, intrapersonal, interpersonal, naturalist existentialist and spatial intellects, and they also have the capacity to develop all of them.

But one of the chief educational implications of the theory is that since each human being has their own unique configuration of intelligences, educators should teach individuals in ways that they can learn. Then, the theory asserts, that teachers should assess students in a way that allows them to show what they understand and to apply their knowledge and skills in unfamiliar contexts.

“AIIBL allows as many different access points to content and thinking as possible within a unit of study so that learners of all different types have multiple exposures,” explains Lopez. “They can apply their strengths to expand their thinking and understanding, as well as use their strengths to support and strengthen areas that may be challenging for them. You can take a child who is very creative and has an opportunity to express themselves and what they know about the solar system by means of something other than a written report, or just reading about it.”

AIIBL to Change Education

Several education models are represented in today’s arts-based versus traditional curricula debates, brought forward with the question: “What will students need to evolve into tomorrow’s workforce?” In a Feb. 2013 PBS.org article “Can STEM really succeed?” David A. Sousa and Tom Pilecki examine the benefit of STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Math) funding in the schools at the cost of art education programs. They acknowledge creative problem solving as a critical skill in STEM and that brain research shows that creativity can be taught – evidence to support the integration of arts-related topics and skills into STEM area courses.

The article says that because there are only so many hours in the school day, one consequence of increasing instruction in the STEM areas has been to decrease instructional time in stand-alone arts classes. Tight budgets and high-stakes testing in reading and mathematics have furthered the trend, it says. But the article also says that the thorough study and application of the scientific, technical, and mathematical principles embodied in the STEM subjects require skills that can be significantly enhanced by training in arts-related areas.

Sousa and Pilecki’s observances chime with Lopez’ thoughts about 21st century skill sets and tomorrow’s workforce. “When you look at what needs to be done professionally nowadays, you need to be able to discuss, justify your opinion, work in a team and problem solve – that involves inquiry. And to compete on the global level, we have to be innovative,” Lopez says. “But our current education model was not set up for our current day and age of innovation; it was created to meet the needs of industrialization – it was set up to teach people how to be factory workers. And that’s got to shift.”

Shifting Focus to Innovation

Badger knew education needed a shift too; his daughters were examples of Sousa and Pilecki’s observations. Badger visited his daughter’s classrooms frequently and could relate to their challenges as dyslexics. “I did badly in school. And my psyche was damaged by that failure,” he recalls. “Experiencing daily failure as an elementary child has lasting ramifications. I dreaded subjects like math, but the arts and sports kept me going at school.”

So, when Badger witnessed Lily experience school as a place of failure it caused him pain. Yet Grace’s love for school made him wonder what her teacher did differently. “It was Grace’s teacher Amy Schindel’s dedication to creative learning that allowed Grace to shine, “ he says. “Her classroom was filled with activities, projects, joy and education through the arts. She was very happy and she did very well.”

The Ed Council’s goals now have expanded to include seeing AIIBL adopted as the common place method of education in classrooms throughout the country. “I want this model to really help us redefine education in the future.” says Lopez. “I look at my job on a day-to-day basis that I am growing the future members of society. I want it to be one where we know how to live amongst each other and work together and have novel ideas that are powerful and purposeful – and that’s where I see AIIBL. I whole-heartedly believe Lily Sarah Grace has the potential to have big impact and create this for more children.”

Lopez’s wish is rapidly materializing. LSG Fund is now playing a role in classrooms in every state in the country, says Badger, through providing supplies and fueling the drive towards learning solutions in America’s classrooms with AIIBL. The Ed Council is now spearheading teacher training programs in Charlotte, N.C. and Los Angeles. Also, starting with this current fall semester, LSG is conducting a freshman course in AIIBL at the University of North Carolina – Charlotte and AIIBL professional development is being conducted at Albemarle Road Elementary School, in Charlotte, N.C..

“If schools don’t utilize aesthetic learning; which is learning by using your hands and doing things, then 40 percent in the classroom will not learn; that’s insane,” observes Badger. “That’s close to how many kids drop out of school. And it’s just awful when you think about how many kids are going to school hating it; that’s very sad.”

With almost every reference to LSG, Badger stresses it has evolved from one big collaboration from the beginning, a core skill promoted in the AIIBL model itself. “First it started with Abby and my dear friends, then it became a union of many, including teachers, parents, and artists. We now have volunteers across America,” he says. Essentially, LSG expanded to include all of the most revered people and associations in Badger and Ballin’s network, except for one: their dog Pippi Badger. But that would change soon, too.

Continue reading this series:
One for the Money
Lily’s Dog Raises Funds for LSG